Why Offering Sober Events and Happy Hours is the Move

Companies that have included sober work events have found that it allows for more opportunities for personal and collaborative growth.

Sobriety is not just a phase; it’s a lifestyle change. Though events such as Dry January have seen spikes of over 200 percent this year, there has been a wider societal push toward alcohol-free living, or at least dialing alcohol consumption back. It’s certainly more common to find mocktails on the menu now than it was even two years ago.

As people explore other avenues for socialization and bonding that don’t involve alcohol, a burgeoning industry of wine-less wind-downs has emerged. However, many offices and employers still only offer things like happy hours and other alcohol-related socialization events to their employees. As sobriety and abstinence become more common in people’s social lives, should employers adapt and offer opportunities for bonding and engagement without bringing out a bottle? 

The Challenge

Wellness is at the forefront of many people’s minds after a global pandemic. Zoom, work-from-home days, and remote job opportunities have taught us to prioritize flexibility, fluidity, and the ability to balance our lives with work. Hybrid schedules allow people to limit their commute time, care for their families, and include wellness in their holistic decision-making. Collaboration and support have become significantly more important in the workplace in the last few years, and we’re seeing that in how people approach their relationships with coworkers.

Decreasing alcohol consumption is a natural extension of our desire to cut back on harmful behaviors. However, this leaves employers in a lurch. Other than happy hour, what is there to do? It seems easy to pick a bar and gather people, but many employers have realized this approach may neglect and exclude a large part of their employee demographic. 

While networking, building camaraderie, and mingling have always included alcohol, this “easy solution” doesn’t take into account those who are struggling with addiction. Simply grabbing drinks after a long day is neither an inclusive nor considerate solution to maintain a healthy working environment where all are welcome. 

Additionally, even after trends such as Dry January, many people fundamentally change their approach to drinking and incorporate new non-alcoholic drinks and activities into their everyday lives, regardless of addiction. As a result, many employers have struggled to incorporate sober-friendly activities and drinks into group bonding events. How can employers extend support to both those struggling with alcohol dependency and those wanting to have new, rewarding experiences with work colleagues?

The Solution

Sober activities create spaces that foster a sense of belonging and well-being. Employers don’t need to throw all happy hours out of the window, but sober social events provide unique activities to employees and encourage more diverse ways to bond with coworkers. Employees are more likely to make connections, engage in meaningful conversations, and enhance collaboration in the long run at an event or workshop.  

Offering alcohol-free gathering opportunities also alleviates any tension people struggling with addiction may feel at having to attend triggering bar gatherings or free-flowing events. It also allows them to participate in office culture without having to limit their interactions if they don’t feel they can handle an alcohol-filled evening with coworkers. All employees will have an equal opportunity to develop socially within the company.

The opportunity to participate in wellness in fellowship and community represents acceptance and growth. People will feel better, look better, and do things that align with their goals better. 

Does Sober Event Planning Work?

Companies that have embraced a less alcohol-dependent bonding paradigm have found that planning events allows for more opportunities for personal and collaborative growth. When alcohol is removed from the equation, team-building activities are more substantial.

While most people don’t drink with coworkers during the day, sober events are perfect for any time! Something as simple as planning an escape room excursion, volunteering at a local pet shelter, organizing a team wellbeing workshop, or indulging in must-try restaurants during lunch can provide ample opportunities for employees to create lasting bonds and try new things.  

Ultimately, sober events allow companies to showcase their care and attention to those struggling with addiction while diversifying the activities employees can do within their company. 

Sobriety is a trend that will only keep growing. As drinking trends shift and abstinence becomes more common, employers must provide activities and opportunities that function in tandem with employees’ lifestyles. Prioritizing workers’ needs enhances productivity, encourages personal and professional growth, and shows employees that the company values them, resulting in the longevity of clients and employees in the long run. 

Marsha Stone
Marsha Stone is the CEO and founder of Foundation Stone, a network of boutique, focused programs for individuals and their families struggling with mental health, substance use disorder and co-occurring disorders across the U.S. Their first featured treatment center, Amend Wellness, is led by a team of specialized medical experts that aim to identify the root causes of a mental health diagnosis through integrative and functional medicine. As someone who knows firsthand what overcoming addiction is like, Marsha integrates her own experiences into providing the most effective and quality rehabilitative programming to those struggling with various disorders. Previously, Marsha served as the Founder of BRC Healthcare, a diverse and specialized treatment provider offering a full continuum of care that includes medical detox, trauma and dual diagnosis, young adult, and gender-specific, chronic relapse treatment. Under her executive leadership, Marsha expanded their operations and strategic direction for over a decade. Since 2011, Marsha has served as one of the few female CEOs in the recovery industry. She is an expert on addiction recovery, intervention, family therapy, behavioral health, wellness, and ethics in treatment center management. Marsha has successfully led several non-profit organizations and considers herself to be a serial entrepreneur in the business of helping people. She is a highly recognized recovery speaker and respected leader in the addiction recovery field and regularly speaks at top industry conferences around the world. Marsha believes the coordinated efforts between the medical, legal and social-work communities are vital in addressing addictions. Marsha is the co-author of Rewired Workbook: A Manual for Addiction Recovery (Hatherleigh Press, 2017) with Erica Spiegelman, which offers practical applications and everyday guidance for breakthrough addiction recovery methods and new healing strategies ideally suited for those trying to achieve true and lasting sobriety. She and Spiegelman also co-hosted the podcast “Rewiring Your Life” which provided tips, tools, and conversations on overall wellness, inspiration and support. Marsha frequently appears on various media outlets including A&E Intervention, Dr. Phil, and The Doctors. She holds a J.D. with the distinction of academic excellence from North Carolina Central University School of Law, a Bachelor of Arts in English from Elizabeth City State University, and is a Licensed Chemical Dependency Counselor in Texas. She is married to a veterinarian, and together they have 5 children. They reside in Austin, Texas. For more information please visit https://www.marshastone.com/.